Monthly Archives: September 2012

Community

Community is far more valuable… no, make that essential, than I ever gave it credit for. We are raising a couple of teens right now… my step kids.  One is becoming very challenging in her behaviour.  Very demanding and seemingly … Continue reading

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Challenging my AA: Anonymity … or lack thereof

Is anonymity a fading principle? Social media is a volountary thing… nobody forces us.  Linking to other AA members is to me, a buyer-beware decision. But even before social media, is the second A in AA losing ground?  Our 12th … Continue reading

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Challenging my AA: All of our affairs

” …. and to practice these principles in all of our affairs”. (The oft-overlooked second half of step 12).  I am going to discuss two issues in this post: Hooking up in AA Living our program beyond sobriety Invariably most will … Continue reading

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Challenging my AA: Ego

I’m going to set out on a bit of a series.  I am going to challenge “my” AA.  By “my” I simply mean my experiences in the AA community in which I participate. This is not intended to discredit AA … Continue reading

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Maybe I don’t need to know the “why”…

A friend with many years sober ended his own life recently. I just found out last week and it shook me up. I knew him somewhat, but since we were both recovering from drugs and alcohol, we did have a … Continue reading

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Strongholds revisited

I read this article recently from a great site, dysfunky.org It is amazingly bang-on to my experiences and outlooks.  It even uses one of my frequently-used phrases, “strongholds”. Yet verbalizes ideas in quite a different way.  Less verbose too! The title … Continue reading

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